Do You Have a Condom I Can Use?

I need my followers to all share their thoughts on this situation.

We are living in a day and age of STDs and I am not talking about short term disability. Sexual Transmitted Diseases. Its a serious matter and if people are making the decision to be sexually active they should make sure they are being safe. For that reason, men and women alike should be smart and protect themselves. A lot of men and women keep condoms on hand. That could be in your nightstand, car, purse or wallet.



So what happens when you begin a monogamous sexual relationship with someone and you have agreed to be exclusive. The two of you have made the decision to no longer use condoms and have taken your relationship to that next level. Should either party still be walking around with a condom in their purse or wallet? Should you still have your stash in your nightstand drawer? If you love this person and you know you aren't dating, talking, let alone having sex with anyone else why is it necessary to have condoms still?

If you feel the need to still walk around with condoms is that because you know you might have sex with someone else? Maybe its to prepare yourself for that moment of weakness? Perhaps it shouldn't be a big deal because ultimately if you were going to cheat it doesn't even mean you would use that condom or a condom at all?

Now lets take it one step further. What if your significant other asked that you take the condoms out of your purse or wallet because you don't need them? Would you respect their wishes and do it? Or stand strong in your beliefs that you have always carried them with you and should keep them just in case?